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[Reality Man]

I have read on a movie review site that 50 Shades of Grey is a mediocre movie at best.

That hasn't seemed to stop people (women) from seeing it. Here is my question.


Do women just like the romance? The sex? Bondage? The good looking guy? Fantasy? The virgin young lady who is sexually awakened?


Any insights? I am no expert on female sexuality. Ask my wife if you don't believe me




Reality Man

 

[anon_sg4bgyiuileo1]

Then ask her.

Seriously, some women (quite a few surprisingly) get off on being dominated in the bedroom. It's not a state secret - but you better come strong with that shit if your woman wants it.

 

[St. Joe Blue 3]

Yeah, it's not "romance" ...


As the Mr. Grey character says .... "I don't make love, I f . . ." .

So give it a shot, take charge ... order your wife what she has to do. Then report back to us how it went.

 

[EeeMzn]

Re: Yeah, it's not "romance" ...

Gents, I got dupped into going! It is not worth it!
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[DA-Bucks]

Re: Yeah, it's not "romance" ...

I think we can switch out "duped" with "dominated".

Your woman owns you - please do not report back on how it went in bed afterwards.

 

[Reality Man]

I have been married. We have marital sex which basically means

for all you single people that there is a certain amount of respect involved.

This is also assuming the sex drive between a couple of about 10 years is the same as two people who have recently met. I am sure there plenty of exceptions...but not in my household.

I think 50 Shades of Grey is for the younger crowd.




Reality Man

 

[24to12]

I think you are directing this question to the wrong people.

 

[Reality Man]

You're right...is there even a female poster on this board?. I know a bunch

of ladies but I don't even have the guts to ask about 10 female friends this question. I am sure there husbands wouldn't appreciate my inquiry too .



Reality Man

 

[amayznblue]

Not sure about the movie but the 50 shades stuff is a movement now. Or more apt, an open discussion of a topic that has always been there.

All women are unique and should be treated with respect. That said, I have anecdotally experienced most women have a desire for an adventurous, confident, successful man. Note in the movie, he appears to be extremely decisive and wealthy. Women that I've encountered like those qualities.

You can be a respectful husband/boyfriend without losing your backbone. Regardless of what our culture presses into us, we are called to be confident leaders in our marriages and as parents. In the bedroom, I always take charge but I much more enjoy making sure my wife is happy at the end. We have an amazing marriage because of that mutual desire to serve one another. It can flow well once you get the balance of it all.
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[Reality Man]

I got ya. Whatever two consenting adults engage in is all right with

me. Great point about the confidence.

As with any couple...we have 'our' own fun stuff or 'inside' jokes. No pun intended.

In regards to 50 Shades...the whole bondage aspect seems like pushing the envelope for most of us. Not saying it's not good. As a couple...we are more playful but it is out of my comfort zone. I can't speak for my wife but I think you are spot on with your assessment...it's about a man who is confident both in and out of the bedroom. Taking control.



Reality Man