My daughter had a 3.98 GPA & test scores to match at an in-state Div 1 school two years ago & was wait-listed to UM. Meanwhile, she was immediately accepted to every other school she applied, including sparty (where her mother graduated from), Wiscy, Marquette, Purdue, etc. Neither her mother nor I influenced her whatsoever in her college decision. We both would have been proud of her & supported her if she had decided to attend Schoolcraft College if that's what she thought was best for her. She was eventually accepted to UM after her first semester high school grades came in at the end of January. Much to my surprise, she was ecstatic to say the least that she had just been accepted to one of the top academic universities in the world (I always thought she'd go to sparty like her Mom). She didn't get a free ride nor a 4 yr guaranteed scholarship but today she's a sophomore at UM busting her ass to survive every single day just like tens of thousands of other students there at UM.
So now, my son, an 18 yr-old senior with a 3.97 GPA at the same Div 1 high school is wait-listed at UM since December. He is taking his semester finals this week & hoping to get accepted to UM as well on his academic merits when he finishes his finals and his grades come in at the end of this week. He also wasn't offered any guaranteed 4 year free ride scholarship to UM either & surely never will. We'll see what happens & go from there.
The bottom line here is that these18 yr-old (just like my son) football & basketball players are coddled since they're in grade-school & have benefits, tons of options, and guaranteed scholarships available to them simply for playing sports that ordinary students who actually get good grades day-in & day-out for 13 years are not entitled to.
For those who think it's kids vs. adults: Get real!! Every one of these recruits (whether 2* or 5*) has had an entourage of adults around them from the 3rd grade on calculating they're every move. I don't feel sorry for them. You wanna sit at the poker table? Be prepared to lose. As our coach says, "You reap what you sow!"
Go Blue
So now, my son, an 18 yr-old senior with a 3.97 GPA at the same Div 1 high school is wait-listed at UM since December. He is taking his semester finals this week & hoping to get accepted to UM as well on his academic merits when he finishes his finals and his grades come in at the end of this week. He also wasn't offered any guaranteed 4 year free ride scholarship to UM either & surely never will. We'll see what happens & go from there.
The bottom line here is that these18 yr-old (just like my son) football & basketball players are coddled since they're in grade-school & have benefits, tons of options, and guaranteed scholarships available to them simply for playing sports that ordinary students who actually get good grades day-in & day-out for 13 years are not entitled to.
For those who think it's kids vs. adults: Get real!! Every one of these recruits (whether 2* or 5*) has had an entourage of adults around them from the 3rd grade on calculating they're every move. I don't feel sorry for them. You wanna sit at the poker table? Be prepared to lose. As our coach says, "You reap what you sow!"
Go Blue